Sorry, taken me a while to get back to this thread (not that I think anyone is desperately waiting for me to update 😆).
So - I'm going to keep it (but return the 14 and get a 12 instead, as it's too big on me).
But here are some observations and thoughts if anyone else is looking at it.....
#1 It's incredibly shapeless and doesn't have a waistband. It's a bit like a slip where there's a thin piece of elastic in the top of the material, but no specific waistband (hope that makes sense to people?). The whole skirt folds up absolutely tiny and is a thin scrap of material.
As a result of the lack of waistband, it's not hugely flattering and a bit hard to wear. I couldn't find any tops or jumpers in my wardrobe (of any colour, just as an experiment) where I'd want to tuck them in. It just looked weird, given the lack of waistband. It looked best with chunky short or cropped jumpers where the very top of the skirt is covered. Appreciate this might be very personal to me - I'm a rectangle, so the chunky cropped jumpers made me look more like I have a waist, given they end and the silhouette then go 'in' where the skirt is.
#2 The inner / lining skirt falls in completely the wrong place for me. It falls a bit below the knee, but not enough to be midi length, and is really unflattering on me. I got the tall size (I'm 5'9") and don't want to swap for a regular as the top lace layer wouldn't be long enough (currently falls as a maxi length for me, and I like that).
However, I'm pretty handy sewing-wise, and it looks super easy to make that lining level a bit shorter. So when I get the smaller size, I'm going to shorten it a couple of inches, either to just above the knee or even mini length (plus at mini length, I wonder if regular length jumpers will work better, as I would look more in proportion).
I appreciate those two points sound really negative, but I still just really like it. And even though it's going to need a) a return for the smaller size, b) some sewing to make the lining shorter, and c) wearing it with the right jumper (and probably a belt), and still won't be a skirt that makes me looks the slimmest / most flattering.....I think I'm still going to enjoy wearing it and finding it pretty.
If anyone else is considering it, I highly recommend finding somewhere to try it on before purchasing. Hope that helps!