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Nice flats to go with Me&Em dress

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BigSkies2022 · 09/07/2025 19:09

I bought this dress today https://www.meandem.com/contrast-stitch-midi-dress-navy

I'm very pleased with it, I know it's quite safe, but I like it and it will work for me through different occasions and seasons. However, I need some nice flats to go with it. Today I've tried on flats/very low block heels in Sezane, Russell & Bromley, Pretty Ballerina, Zara and Marks & Spencers. Big fat no - unflattering, uncomfortable. I have a bunion and I can't manage things that cut around that joint, or skimpy sandals which show my unlovely feet. (of the sort worn by the model in the Me&EM website) I have some chunky footbed sandals from Marni, deliberately wore them to try with the dress today, and they are great, but not the look I'm after. Me & Em have a pair of square toed ballerina type pumps, but at £365, that's too much. I've already returned one pair of shoes to Charles and Keith - pointed silver slingbacks, very pretty, painful to wear.

Since I can't surgically change my feet before 25 July, which is when I need this outfit, does anyone have any ideas?

Women's Navy Contrast Stitch Midi Dress | ME+EM

ME+EM's Navy Contrast Stitch Midi Dress is cleverly crafted from fluid, crease-resistant crepe for AM-PM polish. Shop now.

https://www.meandem.com/contrast-stitch-midi-dress-navy

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YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 09/07/2025 19:19

Try the Charles Clinkard site, good selection of shoes and something from Gabor or Peter Kaiser might suit

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 09/07/2025 19:19

Try the Charles Clinkard site, good selection of shoes and something from Gabor or Peter Kaiser might suit

Foofedifiknow · 09/07/2025 19:20

Beautiful dress Wedge espadrilles?

Nice flats to go with Me&Em dress
MidnightPatrol · 09/07/2025 19:20

Have you looked at the Mint Velvet sale? They have lots of nice flats in it.

BrutalOutHere · 09/07/2025 19:21

No advice, sorry, but that dress is gorgeous!

Jane958 · 09/07/2025 20:38

Vivaia could be a good place to look, but golly GBP 275 for polyester that is steep.

Cyclingmummy1 · 09/07/2025 21:08

Foofedifiknow · 09/07/2025 19:20

Beautiful dress Wedge espadrilles?

These are lush.

I'd second Gabor as well. I only recently realised that Charles Clinkard have the UK 'rights'. CC are a north east institution.

netflixfan · 09/07/2025 21:09

I world put a gold shoe with that beautiful dress.

BigSkies2022 · 09/07/2025 21:12

Thank you for the suggestions and yeah, yeah MN bingo, I was waiting for the polyester remark! I have linen, cotton, silk, cashmere in my wardrobe and yes, yes, lovely they are too. But I wanted a certain cut, a certain fit and this is what I found in budget.

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BigSkies2022 · 09/07/2025 21:13

Yes! Gold shoe! That was also my thought.

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divingworldchampion · 09/07/2025 21:36

That’s a really fabulous dress, love it. Air and Grace have some nice flats, I have a pair of their sandals and they are v. comfy. I’d go for gold too.

ScupperedbytheSea · 09/07/2025 22:10

I've long been a fan of Saltwater Sandals, but have a newish pair in these soft sole versions.

They are so comfy and look good with everything (imo)

Rose Gold Womens Sandal - Salt-Water Sandals Shop UK share.google/4ObFoqYbDcMUO0kSy saltwater rose gold sandals

ScupperedbytheSea · 09/07/2025 22:12

And I love the dress BTW, I've looked at that before and it's proper classy

BeetledBrow · 10/07/2025 00:20

Can’t really help with the foot issue, but you might try:

https://uk.dearfrances.com/collections/summer-sale

https://www.grenson.com/shop-womens/shop-by-collection/all-womens-footwear/ No gold, but there may be something you like.

https://hereustudio.com/collections/sale-ss25-womens-shoes

GarlicMetre · 10/07/2025 04:30

I'm not sure these would meet your level of sophistication? What I like about them is that they're adjustable at all points, including the over-bunion strap, and the soles are flexible.

https://www.clarks.com/en-gb/calenne-clara/26177034-p

Womens Calenne Clara Bronze Metallic Wedges | Clarks UK

Shop Womens Calenne Clara Bronze Metallic Wedges at Clarks UK. Explore the latest trends with our range of Sandals online today.

https://www.clarks.com/en-gb/calenne-clara/26177034-p

WashableVelvet · 10/07/2025 06:30

Blowfish granola sandals. Flat, pretty, sometimes in gold if you look for different stockists, good with my bunion.
Looks like they’re sometimes called Devon too.
www.schuh.co.uk/womens/blowfish-malibu-devon-strappy-tan-sandals/1744796260/

NeedingCoffee · 10/07/2025 06:32

Try Cala or Sargasso and Gray. Both brilliant for bunions.

MrsPositivity1 · 10/07/2025 06:35

Stunning dress. They are such good quality. I agree with PP, espadrilles would look great

MerylSqueak · 10/07/2025 06:58

Something like this?

Anna Field Ballet pumps - dark brown - Zalando.co.uk https://share.google/e0vxV2ZmJ5ww6OaNX

mrschocolatte · 10/07/2025 06:59

Esska does a lovely pair of gold flats. I’ve only just discovered this brand after recommendations on here and I’m really pleased with the sandals I recently bought for my old manky feet!

Aurora Vegan Embossed Platinum

Aurora is the perfect mid season shoe. Made with metallic vegan leather, this T bar shoe boasts an adjustable ankle strap and closed toe for a comfortable fit. Perfect for any occasion, walk in style and leave a lasting impression. Upper: vegan non-lea...

https://esskashoes.com/products/aurora-vegan-embossed-platinum

weaselwords · 10/07/2025 07:02

Here me out…from Sainsbury’s Tu

Nice flats to go with Me&Em dress
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