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Black tie event - what to wear?

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SensibleJaneAndrews · 17/05/2025 08:46

DH and I have been invited to a black tie event. What is the woman’s equivalent of black tie? I have a green satin sort of tea dress, will that do? I’m not a dressy sort of person, advice welcomed!!

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Serenster · 17/05/2025 09:33

Black tie traditionally means evening dresses for women (i.e. floor-length), since watered down to cocktail dresses, and formal trouser suits or jumpsuits will also be fine. What it doesn’t include (in theory) is formal day wear. So anything you’d normally wear to the office, even a very smart office, would normally be considered underdressed. Does that help?

A green satin tea dress sounds fine, by the way, as it sounds more going out than going to work?

SensibleJaneAndrews · 17/05/2025 09:36

I don’t have anything floor length! The green dress is definitely dressing up, so hopefully it will do

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Rocknrollstar · 17/05/2025 09:44

I always wear evening trousers and a fancy top. As wide trousers are in fashion at the moment, you could get away with a pair of those.

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 17/05/2025 22:39

SensibleJaneAndrews · 17/05/2025 09:36

I don’t have anything floor length! The green dress is definitely dressing up, so hopefully it will do

You don't need floor length. If it's of any help I've been wearing the navy version of the Pauw dress to black tie events for about the last 8 years, although the last black tie event I wore the Sister Jane dress.

I'm not suggesting either of these for you. These are just dresses which met the requirements.

Pauw dress
Sister Jane dress

Korte Mouwen Midi Jurk - Roze

One of the iconic designs from the PAUW collection, this dress with short sleeves. This midi design is made in a slightly shiny quality, has a high neck and can be closed with a zipper at the back. The dress has side pockets on both sides and runs into...

https://pauw.com/en-eu/products/korte-mouwen-midi-jurk-11201301299a240?_pos=13&_fid=f29ae52b5&_ss=c

SensibleJaneAndrews · 18/05/2025 08:11

Thank you! The Pauw dress is nice, a bit like the Grace one by Katya Wildman which I lust over but so pricey!!

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