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Help me with ideas for non restrictive waistband

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longshot · 24/03/2025 12:21

I have recently had a hysterectomy and currently (6 weeks post op) i cannot bare to wear my 'normal' jeans because they just feel very restrictive around scars etc. I am probably slightly bigger than I was although the clothes fit I just can't stand the sensation of anything 'tight' around my waist. The thing is I live in jeans or sports leggings (which I can still wear).

I am going on holiday soon and need some outfits...

I have one pair of Halara jeans (with a gentle waistband) and I am living in those, unbuttoned jeans (except when walking!) and lulu lemon leggings.

Has anyone got any suggestions? I have a couple of summer dresses that will work on holiday but not really suitable for UK/work/general life.

Brand I normally wear would be Hush, Nobodby's Child, Mint Velvet but I need inspiration for other places which offer 'more relaxed' shapes.

I am a size 10 and a good shape so that's not a problem, I just can't be doing with jeans for now.

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Judystilldreamsofhorses · 24/03/2025 15:56

I'm in my elasticated waist era right now - thanks, perimenopause! These might not be to your taste (and please don't let this thread fill up with people saying how horrible they are because I own and like them all) but they will give you an idea of some things that are out there.

I'm a 10/12, and have these from Cos:

https://www.cos.com/en-gb/women/womenswear/trousers/barrel-leg/product/relaxed-barrel-leg-denim-drawstring-trousers-dark-blue-1281851002

https://www.cos.com/en-gb/women/womenswear/trousers/barrel-leg/product/elasticated-barrel-leg-trousers-beige-1208911010

https://www.cos.com/en-gb/women/womenswear/trousers/highwaisted/product/wide-leg-fluid-denim-trousers-washed-black-1209795003

These are heavier and much more of a "jean" but I LOVE them. I'm tempted to get the bow print pair too.

https://damsonmadder.com/products/felix-jeans-laser-stripe?variant=55035432599939

My DP has said these are pyjamas but I think they will be cute with a t-shirt and trainers in warmer weather. I may just wear them round the house/garden, but they're viral on TikTok and people are definitely wearing them out and about.

https://www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1229229011.html

felix jeans - laser stripe

Lasered stripe details adorn a barrel leg fit, our Felix Jeans are crafted using waterless laser technology. Made with 100% organic cotton and featuring an elasticated waist, pair them with the matching Hera Jacket for the perfect everyday co-ord.    •...

https://damsonmadder.com/products/felix-jeans-laser-stripe?variant=55035432599939

longshot · 24/03/2025 17:15

Thank you, I do like some of those. Not sure on the H&M ones but the rest I like!

I guess with drawstring I can just tie them loosely, where as jeans just feel so restrictive!

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Dearg · 24/03/2025 17:18

I am not sure I am tall enough for barrel legs, but @Judystilldreamsofhorses i love those wide leg fluid ones!

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 24/03/2025 20:55

@longshot the H&M ones are definitely not for everyone, but if I don’t wear them out they will be perfect for working from home. I had a member discount on the app plus a “reward” so they were practically free.

@Dearg i’m 5ft 6 so not that tall - give them a go!

Rina66 · 25/03/2025 13:23

Would skirts with a jersey waistband help?

This skirt from Albaray is lovely...

www.albaray.co.uk/products/woven-mix-full-skirt-ss24?variant=44566641377517

Summerhillsquare · 25/03/2025 15:41

H&M also have the fold over waistband ones in their leisure section. V casual, I wear for yoga.

Namechange032025 · 25/03/2025 15:52

I've just got these for hols. They're v nice, will go with everything and non restrictive
www.hush-uk.com/lyra-oversized-tie-waist-trousers-black/011061-0456.html

UpMyself · 25/03/2025 19:26

Yoga pants or maternity trousers.
Yes, I know, but I know women who swear by them.

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