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You're going out for afternoon/evening drinks - what are you wearing?

19 replies

theriseandfallofFranklinSaint · 08/03/2025 10:49

DH and I are going out into town later (5ish) and whilst not a rare occurrence, I'm pondering what to wear.

I love wide trousers, body, blazer but DH really isn't a fan of the wide trousers. Yes, I do dress for me and not him but we always want to look nice for each other which is a shame if the trousers aren't a hit!

What do you wear for drinks in town and do you always like what your OH goes out in? 😄

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Purplecatshopaholic · 08/03/2025 10:56

Hmm, depends on the place. I’m a dress fan, so probably a shortish dress with heeled boots. Or a maxi with flats or chunky boots.
My OH is a casual dresser generally - combats and tee shirts mainly, and yes it suits him. If I really didn’t like something he wouldn’t wear it, same for me, as it’s nice to wear things your partner likes. Generally though we don’t comment on each others clothes.

IMissSparkling · 08/03/2025 10:59

I'm wearing jeans, that's all I've got.

Hattieandcake · 08/03/2025 11:37

Wide leg jeans!

BlossomBlossomBlossom · 08/03/2025 12:13

Is that a shout of defiance, or a plea for help, @IMissSparkling? Grin

I have almost no intention of dragging myself out this evening - but if I had to it would probably be in a long sleeveless sweater dress and knee high boots, with a big cable knit cardigan slung across my shoulders. Could do with improvement, to be honest …

CostcoBuns · 08/03/2025 12:20

Jeans, flowery blouse and new cotton jacket, lace up pumps. For once, the colours seem to go together 😆

Susiesue61 · 08/03/2025 12:23

Going out at 5 here to meet DH after the match. I'll be in dress boots and coat, he'll be in warm clothes!!

bostonchamps · 08/03/2025 12:30

Think I'm doing grey barrel legs and a dark wash denim shirt tonight. We're in London and the sun is shining so I might brave brown suede marry janes.

I've also just had a chocolate silk slip dress with a black lace trim delivered. That's an option, with a sage corduroy shirt as a jacket and cowboy boots.

Gravytanned · 08/03/2025 12:32

Short casual dress, maybe denim. Tights and either boots or trainers.

I do tend to mostly wear dresses for going out.

Or wide leg jeans, top and trainers.

TheOGCCL · 08/03/2025 13:15

How wide is wide? As there are plenty of more relaxed jean shapes around that arent wide, eg boyfriend, girlfriend, relaxed, slim, straight. Some of the wide/long/baggy/Palazzo ones are getting really extreme.

Floisme · 08/03/2025 13:31

What do you wear for drinks in town and do you always like what your OH goes out in?

I'm going to swerve the first question as I struggle to stay awake beyond 8pm at the moment. But on the second point, hell no! We can both be quite brutal about each other's choices although we don't go as far as vetoing anything.

Provided he reciprocates, I think it can be fun sometimes to choose an outfit you know he's going to like. What does 'looking nice for each other' mean to you both?

Echobelly · 08/03/2025 13:34

Something like a jersey dress, tights and flat soled boots for me.

I like how DH dresses generally - he usually has a smart pair of jeans that he'll wear with a floral shirt for something like drinks.

MeAndMyGhost · 08/03/2025 13:39

I'm on the One Hundred Stars train and the Rachel dress style which is forgiving if you're large of middle (as I am). You can belt if if you have some semblance of a waist.

Perhaps not great for an imminent date, but so versatile for brunch/work/drinks/dinner date.

https://onehundredstars.co.uk/collections/dresses/products/stork-black-crepe-dress

Stork Black Rachel Dress

The prefect vintage inspired little black dress in luxurious crepe. This flattering V-line dress features wonderful art deco cranes and storks on a rich black background.

https://onehundredstars.co.uk/collections/dresses/products/stork-black-crepe-dress

anon2022anon · 08/03/2025 13:44

We went out last weekend for a few drinks, I wore a black fitted shortish skirt, tights but not thick ones, flat boots, and a kind of black sparkly mesh/ net top vith a cami underneath. A black short velvet jacket for warmth. I was dressed in an outfit my other half would prefer, not what I would wear out with friends.

theriseandfallofFranklinSaint · 08/03/2025 14:10

Well all these outfits sounds great and I bet we all look fabulous when we go out!

We've just come in from shopping and for the first time in a long time, ice had to tell DH that the jeans he's just bought aren't my favourite. They're OK but not what he looks best in. He wanted my opinion but I do feel a bit bad as the new 'going out' jeans have been relegated to the 'daytime' before the first wear 😬

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gingercat02 · 08/03/2025 14:20

Town - dress heeled boots and jacket
Local small town - jeans or wide legged trousers or pleather trousers and going out top ankle boots

MissyB1 · 08/03/2025 14:29

I’m going out tonight for drinks at a wine bar then on to a restaurant (not a posh one!). I’m wearing my bootcut jeans, a smart fitted jersey top, and my black suede ankle boots - with a bit of a heel to give me some height!

Rollofrockandsand · 08/03/2025 14:55

Wide dark wash high waist jeans with a thin belt. Sleeveless cami or tight sleeveless high neck vest, Chanel style navy jacket, trainers

IHaveAlwaysLivedintheCastle · 08/03/2025 17:06

Whichever dress from vast collection took my fancy and flat lace up ankle boots or ballet flats- jacket or coat, weather dependant. I wouldn't pay any attention as to whether my husband didn't like what I was wearing- not sure if he'd comment.

I like all his clothes. He never wears jeans or trainers. I don't know if I would say anything if he started wearing them, but we both dislike them, so hopefully theoretical.

henlake7 · 08/03/2025 19:19

I'd wear either wide legged jeans, heeled boots and a pussy bow blouse or boots, tights and a wrap dress.
Oh, and a really confused expression coz I literally never go out for drinks!

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