It is below shoulder nearly to bra. A decent natural caramel blonde but a horrible texture. It's wavy but won't curl, even with the CG method, etc. So much hard work!
I tend to use a hot brush at 180degrees with heat protection and just smooth it out. So whether I wear it wavy or smooth it still looks fuzzy and split.
Thing is, I didn't use heat for 5 years, treated it well and it STILL looked like this.
So I came to the conclusion that tthis is just my hair and we need to get along!
My question is, I only suit it worn up or back due to the crappy texture. It's soft, healthy enough and growing, but really doesn't suit me worn loose. I can't get used to that as I always used to wear it loose but I guess it's changed now that I am older.
How do you get used to not being able to wear your hair loose?
Sounds a bit silly but it bothers me. I like that I can just throw on a hat or hood, go hiking, not care about clips and shit. It feels boring tied up or back, and I wonder if this is just typical patriarchal stuff that insinuates loose, long hair is more feminine.
Anyone else experienced this?