I'm in my fifties, size 16, but have no waist (probably due to my age and lack of hormones!) If I wear baggy tops I look ridiculous because of my chest size (36F), but anything tight shows off every lump and bump.
Is it possible to look like I've got a waist? Or generally not look as if I don't care?!
I wear slim to skinny jeans, usually with a baggy jumper. I don't like wider jeans, they seem to make me look even fatter!