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Please help me find an outfit for Thursday!

29 replies

PurpleOrangeBlueGreen · 24/06/2024 19:28

Hello, I really need help finding a smart, cool, outfit for Thursday. Senior meeting and I need to look smart and stay cool in the heat (menopause!).
Im 5’2 with a big belly and boobs and I need either a maxi dress that doesn’t swamp me but hides a tummy, perhaps wide trousers?
I cannot go shopping as no time.
help me.

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Fishwiife · 24/06/2024 21:30

Wide leg trousers with a white t shirt and a statement necklace or a cami and a kimono top (or linen/cotton shirt?

LookItsMeAgain · 24/06/2024 22:11

You're going to have to shop online if you need a new outfit so the places that have next day delivery would be the likes of M&S or Next, right?

I'd go for linen and I wouldn't go for wide leg trousers, I'd go for straight or tapered leg trousers - something like these - https://www.next.co.uk/style/su070555/315791#315791

I'd go for something like this top - https://www.next.co.uk/g29431s15/453383#453383

something like this jacket but don't close the button - https://www.next.co.uk/style/ls349503/k35596#k35596

Would that work do you think?

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TheGirlattheBack · 24/06/2024 22:26

I wouldn’t wear linen, you’ll look like a creased mess. Something like this would be good.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 24/06/2024 22:30

Fishwiife · 24/06/2024 21:30

Wide leg trousers with a white t shirt and a statement necklace or a cami and a kimono top (or linen/cotton shirt?

That's 4 or 5 items to get right in almost no time.

A dress would be far more sensible.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 24/06/2024 22:33

TheGirlattheBack · 24/06/2024 22:26

I wouldn’t wear linen, you’ll look like a creased mess. Something like this would be good.

Agreed - although it's sold out in every size except 16.

minipie · 25/06/2024 09:44

I wouldn’t wear a floral midi dress to a senior meeting but it depends on your industry I suppose.

TizerorFizz · 25/06/2024 10:06

There are still tiered dresses in cotton available. I do believe women don’t have to dress like men for meetings. Looking reasonably smart and presentable is just fine in summer .I own two of the attached from M&S and they can be dressed up! The green dress is great with the right accessories. The dark navy with streaks is also easy to elevate. They are comfortable to wear too.

@PurpleOrangeBlueGreen I understand your dilemma and I would suggest cotton and straight or tiered to lose the bumps. Lose the belts. A cami and trousers - not sure about you, but big boobs and a cami isn’t great. T shirt? Flowing top would work better with wider trousers to stay cool. Happy shopping.

Please help me find an outfit for Thursday!
Please help me find an outfit for Thursday!
Please help me find an outfit for Thursday!
IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 25/06/2024 13:25

TizerorFizz · 25/06/2024 10:06

There are still tiered dresses in cotton available. I do believe women don’t have to dress like men for meetings. Looking reasonably smart and presentable is just fine in summer .I own two of the attached from M&S and they can be dressed up! The green dress is great with the right accessories. The dark navy with streaks is also easy to elevate. They are comfortable to wear too.

@PurpleOrangeBlueGreen I understand your dilemma and I would suggest cotton and straight or tiered to lose the bumps. Lose the belts. A cami and trousers - not sure about you, but big boobs and a cami isn’t great. T shirt? Flowing top would work better with wider trousers to stay cool. Happy shopping.

Those dresses are far smarter and senior work meeting appropriate than jumpsuits, camis and wide legged trousers.

BlanklyMyDear · 25/06/2024 14:35

Net-a-Porter does same day delivery if you’re in, or close to London …

https://www.net-a-porter.com/en-gb/

Even so, It might be stressful to have to rely on delivery in such a short time frame.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 25/06/2024 17:41

minipie · 25/06/2024 09:44

I wouldn’t wear a floral midi dress to a senior meeting but it depends on your industry I suppose.

The jumpsuit you suggested looks like party wear- not senior work meeting wear.

TizerorFizz · 25/06/2024 17:59

Jumpsuit shows a tummy! Avoid. Floral midi dress is fine with appropriate accessories. Women are allowed to wear florals unless they are barristers! Why do we tell ourselves we must stick to a uniform?

Roseyjane · 25/06/2024 18:08

What size are you op and what is your budget?

sugarisbad · 25/06/2024 18:38

amzn.eu/d/09DHXBTx
What about this -next day delivery and although it's cheap it could be dressed up with good jewellery-quality shoes ,sunglasses and a large statement bag .
Available in lots of colours .

sugarisbad · 25/06/2024 18:40

Just ordering one myself now to try 😁....

TizerorFizz · 25/06/2024 21:00

@sugarisbad Looking at the photo, it’s transparent.

Rina66 · 25/06/2024 21:27

What about a v neck tunic pop over style? H & M do them every year, this years model is 5' 11, so it looks short on her, but it would be below the knee on you. They come in plain colours, but the patterned one is the only one shown on a model. Not sure H & M do next day delivery though, but might be worth buying for the future, they're so reasonable...

V-neck tunic www2.hm.com/en_gb/productpage.1058018018.html

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 25/06/2024 21:35

sugarisbad · 25/06/2024 18:38

amzn.eu/d/09DHXBTx
What about this -next day delivery and although it's cheap it could be dressed up with good jewellery-quality shoes ,sunglasses and a large statement bag .
Available in lots of colours .

It's for a senior work place meeting.

PurpleOrangeBlueGreen · 25/06/2024 21:55

Thanks, everyone. Very much appreciate all your messages.
I’ve ordered two M&S dresses for delivery tomorrow!

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Peaceandquietandacuppa · 25/06/2024 21:56

I wore this with a blazer and sandals the other day and felt really good. Size 10/12 5ft 1.

Roseyjane · 25/06/2024 21:57

Op, this will be much longer on you than me, but it’s stretchy and has ruching and is very flattering as I recently got it for the same reason. It is hard to know what to recommend without knowing your size and budget, but it disguises my tummy

www.hobbs.com/product/iliana-jersey-dress/0124-5974-1185L00-NAVY.html#suggestion=true

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 25/06/2024 21:57

www.next.co.uk/g54127s5/n59897#n59897

TizerorFizz · 25/06/2024 22:06

I think to wear a tight fitting dress like the Hobbs one you don’t need lumps and bumps.

Roseyjane · 25/06/2024 22:09

TizerorFizz · 25/06/2024 22:06

I think to wear a tight fitting dress like the Hobbs one you don’t need lumps and bumps.

I’ve my fair share, and as it is thick stretchy material it fools the eye and smooths you out.