I’m looking for an eyeshadow to use on low make up days. Something that evens out my eyelids and makes me look a little better, more awake, without adding too much colour. I am pale with a red/purple tone to my eyelids. My eyes are blue. I’ve tried so many shadows but none are right - too light, too sparkly even though they don’t look sparkly in packaging. Can anyone recommend a holy grail product and shade for this?!