Hi all. I'm 42 and petite. Looking for some jeans that are not too 'mumsy'. Tbh I'm not sure whether skinny or bootcut is the way to go, perhaps one of each. But basically I desperately need some nice jeans that I can actually wear comfortably all day. One surgery + 2 c sections has left me simply unable to bear the feeling of anything hard /tight around my middle. Any ideas of where I can go?