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Chic people of S&B, please help me style this dress…

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CommeIlFaut · 30/04/2024 15:20

I’ve bought this dress for an anniversary dinner at the Sky Garden. I know it’s not the ultimate in fashion, but it’s good quality and looks nice on me as a shortish, brunette, 46 year old size 12.

I would really appreciate some ideas about how to style it to make a complete outfit. I can’t wear heels, but any other shoe, accessory and particularly jacket/cardi/other warm layer ideas would be very welcome. https://www.boden.co.uk/en-gb/panelled-bodice-midi-dress-fiesta-and-orchid-pink/sty-d0882-pnt

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Illpickthatup · 30/04/2024 17:17

The dress is lovely as it is. I wouldn't wear a necklace with that neckline. I think it would be too much with the pattern.

Maybe gold shoes and bags. It doesn't need much else to be honest.

CommeIlFaut · 30/04/2024 18:25

Thank you. I was thinking about gold shoes. Maybe a flat sandal? Or with a little block heel?

I don’t normally wear gold but got some lovely gold hoops at the weekend so could wear those too.

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BlancheSaysYes · 30/04/2024 19:43

Gold flat sandals, a gold bag and a pashmina in bronze.

Clarinet1 · 01/05/2024 11:42

I think the Uniqlo jacket above would swamp the dress. Something more fitted and either cropped or fitted to the waist would be better. I like the idea of gold or bronze shoes etc but for a jacket you could go for a contrast such as electric blue or lime green.

Lovend · 01/05/2024 11:54

Oh this is lovely! I would style with your gold hoop earrings, some gold flat sandals and probably a short leather or denim jacket.

MyBigFatGreekSalad · 01/05/2024 12:05

I'd keep it simple and just add some gold sandals and and a neutral bag. Minimal jewellery!

Chic people of S&B, please help me style this dress…
Chic people of S&B, please help me style this dress…
DailyEnergyCrisis · 01/05/2024 12:29

I love it! I’d do gold hoops, small block heels and a cropped denim jacket. I’m a 40 yr old short brunette too- might buy it 😆

Candleabra · 01/05/2024 12:40

I love that dress! Good job. All of the style options suggested are great.

CommeIlFaut · 01/05/2024 13:28

Thanks so much. There are lots of really helpful ideas here.

I think I’d like to try a cropped jacket. Does this one look right? https://www.whistles.com/product/184542.html?cqsrc=google_ads&cq_cmp=20778629898&cq_term=&cq_plac=&cq_net=x&cq_plt=gp&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=20778629898&utm_content=&utm_term=&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI26mgybnshQMV9pNQBh11wg0IEAQYASABEgLRC_D_BwE

I will definitely pick up some gold sandals to go with it. Love the idea of trying a little wedge heel.

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MotherWol · 01/05/2024 13:40

I'd go with gold sandals, gold jewellery - probably a bracelet rather than a necklace - and a cropped jacket. Something like this Sezane cardigan maybe? https://www.sezane.com/en/product/betty-cardigan/ecru#size-XXS

Illpickthatup · 01/05/2024 14:13

CommeIlFaut · 01/05/2024 13:28

Thanks so much. There are lots of really helpful ideas here.

I think I’d like to try a cropped jacket. Does this one look right? https://www.whistles.com/product/184542.html?cqsrc=google_ads&cq_cmp=20778629898&cq_term=&cq_plac=&cq_net=x&cq_plt=gp&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=20778629898&utm_content=&utm_term=&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI26mgybnshQMV9pNQBh11wg0IEAQYASABEgLRC_D_BwE

I will definitely pick up some gold sandals to go with it. Love the idea of trying a little wedge heel.

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This jacket is perfect!

awaynboilyurheid · 01/05/2024 16:01

Oh I don’t like the jacket sorry! The dress is gorgeous!
I think mybigfatgreek nailed it with the accessories and maybe a pashmina but please don’t drown it with a jacket.

Poachedeggs1 · 01/05/2024 16:17

Lovely dress, and I agree with others that gold sandals and your gold hoops will be great. Please don’t get the cropped jacket. On this occasion I agree that a big pashmina would be perfect. Pale gold or cream. The cropped jacket with that style of dress is very dated , just my opinion of course.

LivelyBlake · 01/05/2024 17:28

I don't like the cropped jackets either. They'll look very dated.

If I had to wear a jacket with that dress I'd choose a tuxedo jacket or blazer in white or ivory. Yes to gold sandals and gold drop earrings.

https://www.johnlewis.com/mango-tempo-double-breasted-suit-blazer/cream/p111621588?size=L&s_ppc=2dx_mixed_fashion_BAU&tmad=c&tmcampid=2&gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjw0MexBhD3ARIsAEI3WHKXkJWLlm3N1drnSptTGsDStms-PlSrOEd-VFcy3rEfEyiRBa_VSPgaApmHEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

DailyEnergyCrisis · 01/05/2024 17:30

Definitely don’t go for a wrap/pashmina in my opinion- I think it’d really take the edge off a lovely dress. Waist length jacket in a contrasting fabric so it doesn’t look too weddingy.

DailyEnergyCrisis · 01/05/2024 17:36

https://www.zara.com/uk/en/textured-bomber-jacket-p03046029.html?v1=317782478&v2=2352724

maybe a bomber jacket?

EatingSleeping · 01/05/2024 18:48

If you're open to trying a heel but comfort is important (and budget is not under pressure) these dancing queen shoes from air and grace are so comfy https://airandgracelondon.com/products/dancing-queen-gold-bow-heeled-sandals

I agree that a jacket could swamp the dress and a wrap might be better. I do like the one you've chosen though and I think you'll get lots of wear from it. If you're worried about being cold is be tempted to wear cycling shorts type pants underneath

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laclochette · 01/05/2024 20:19

What a stunning dress!
I would avoid a necklace as others have said.
These sandals would be perfect with it, and some chunky gold earrings like these which are a dupe of the super trendy Bottega Veneta ones.

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https://www.marksandspencer.com/oversized-stud-earrings/p/clp22580244?prevPage=srp#intid=pid_pg1pip48g2r1c1

Freakinfraser · 01/05/2024 20:22

CommeIlFaut · 01/05/2024 13:28

Thanks so much. There are lots of really helpful ideas here.

I think I’d like to try a cropped jacket. Does this one look right? https://www.whistles.com/product/184542.html?cqsrc=google_ads&cq_cmp=20778629898&cq_term=&cq_plac=&cq_net=x&cq_plt=gp&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=20778629898&utm_content=&utm_term=&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI26mgybnshQMV9pNQBh11wg0IEAQYASABEgLRC_D_BwE

I will definitely pick up some gold sandals to go with it. Love the idea of trying a little wedge heel.

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I have this, the sleeves are very long, and I’m tall with long arms,I had to take them up. Just a warning.

and great dress by the way,

PrimalLass · 01/05/2024 20:23

A little cardi jacket would be so much better than a wrap (very weddings c. 2004).

70sShmeventies · 01/05/2024 22:08

CommeIlFaut · 01/05/2024 13:28

Thanks so much. There are lots of really helpful ideas here.

I think I’d like to try a cropped jacket. Does this one look right? https://www.whistles.com/product/184542.html?cqsrc=google_ads&cq_cmp=20778629898&cq_term=&cq_plac=&cq_net=x&cq_plt=gp&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=20778629898&utm_content=&utm_term=&gad_source=1&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI26mgybnshQMV9pNQBh11wg0IEAQYASABEgLRC_D_BwE

I will definitely pick up some gold sandals to go with it. Love the idea of trying a little wedge heel.

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Ha! Was just going to link to this jacket! Perfect imo, doesn’t take away from the print of the dress and the dainty cropped element shows of the shape and doesn’t swamp the it.