I'm a middle aged woman with no discernible cheekbones and hair not unlike a brillo pad (very thick, coarse and wavy if not straightened). It is not self-deprecating, I've accepted I'm very plain. I have tried to grow out my short hair but it really doesn't suit me long - just look like Mr Potato head with Hagrid hair. Any short hair style suggestions to minimise full-moon round face and at least make me look the best I can look? Should I be going for a long fringe? Side board type pieces onto face? Flicky out shag like Jane Fonda? Curtain fringe with centre part?