I'm struggling. I have bought some black slim jeans with that coating on so they look smarter if going out. Now I have no idea what top to wear with them. I can't tuck in, my tummy is too round. It's disproportional to the rest of my body and I just look pregnant if I tuck things in. On the other hand if I wear a top that comes to hip height, it emphasises the widest point. So finally I am left with wearing a long top, which I would prefer, but I worry that tunic tops are a bit frumpy. I'm only 40, average size. I want some thing nice but not too dressy. I'm reasonably flat chested. Silky blouses always seem to cling to tummy area. Any ideas anyone??