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Help! 14yr old shoes for party

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SuperSue77 · 13/10/2023 20:58

Please help me! We have a family party and my 14yr old needs some nice shoes but I have no idea where to look! She is adult size and doesn’t want heels or to look too grown up. She’s thinking of a black sequin mini skirt paired with a long sleeve casual top, but what shoes to go with it and where from? I’m so useless at fashion.

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Papillon23 · 13/10/2023 21:02

I'd be tempted to get some shiny new converse, either low or high top to go with that outfit (but I may be hopelessly out of touch).

Either black to match or a burgundy or pink or something?

If they're pretty new I think they look smart enough for a party but without being either heels or a proper formal shoe?

Hmmthatsgoodchicken · 13/10/2023 21:05

DD (14) wears her white converse for going out a lot.

Tinkeytonkoldfruit · 13/10/2023 21:05

Docs would look cool with that outfit too I think.

Pinkpinkplonk · 13/10/2023 21:06

Doc Martens!!

Tinkeytonkoldfruit · 13/10/2023 21:07

Jinx @Pinkpinkplonk

ApolloandDaphne · 13/10/2023 21:08

My niece wore white DMs with her wedding dress and it looked utterly cool so I second the idea of DMs with her outfit.

clary · 13/10/2023 21:08

Yeh I was going to say Converse too. You can get fancy ones in velvet or sequins. Very nice.

Pinkpinkplonk · 13/10/2023 21:10

@Tinkeytonkoldfruit 🤣

Frenchfancy · 13/10/2023 21:14

Converse or DMs

SharpieElephant · 13/10/2023 21:15

Converse, Doc Martins or Air Forces are all popular to wear with skirts / dresses

Alargeoneplease89 · 13/10/2023 21:18

SharpieElephant · 13/10/2023 21:15

Converse, Doc Martins or Air Forces are all popular to wear with skirts / dresses

Agreed

soupweather · 13/10/2023 21:25

Frenchfancy · 13/10/2023 21:14

Converse or DMs

Agreed.

SuperSue77 · 14/10/2023 00:08

Thanks for the suggestions. Ran them past DD and she doesn’t want Converse or DMs! Back to the drawing board! I ask her what her friends/peers wear and she say she doesn’t know or doesn’t like what they wear - I’m close to giving up!

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bronkie · 14/10/2023 00:19

Thick tights and boots - how about some flat thick Chelsea boots or similar?

https://www.stradivarius.com/gb/black-flat-ankle-boots-with-buckles-l19958270?style=01&colorId=040&categoryId=1020569691

berrypop · 14/10/2023 00:33

How about some Vivienne Westwood x Melissa ballet pumps?

www.flannels.com/vivienne-westwood-x-melissa

Pinkpinkplonk · 14/10/2023 09:05

Just take her shopping then!
Better still send her on her own!!

Moveoverdarlin · 14/10/2023 09:09

Is she planning to wear black tights with the black miniskirt? If so, she could wear chunky black ankle boots, or knee high flat chunky boots, or chunky loafers, there’s really nice biker boots around, or cheaper style patent dr martens.

clary · 14/10/2023 09:34

What does she normally wear if not converse or DMs? Can she wear her school shoes?

Or Yy some nice ballet flats?

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