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Help! cant find the dress of my imagination

34 replies

Chipperfish · 03/10/2023 20:08

Never posted on style and beauty before but have always been impressed by the suggestions on other peoples threads.

I am looking for a cocktail/mini dress for a winter party, and want to look great.
I would love to wear something with a bit of glitter/sequins in green, blue or silver colours, even peacock type shades. I am 10-12, about 5ft1, fairly slim waist but busty. Ideally any dress would have at least elbow length or long sleeves and a v neck, but preferably not a wrap dress as they tend to gape on me.

I absolutely love this from another thread but the high neckline would not work well for me - if anyone could find me a v neck version or suggest something similar?
https://mintvelvet.com/en-ie/products/green-sequin-mini-dress

Green Sequin Mini Dress

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https://mintvelvet.com/en-ie/products/green-sequin-mini-dress

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MayIDestroyYou · 03/10/2023 20:28

One of the dress hire places (like Hurr) might have this available to rent.

https://www.matchesfashion.com/products/Alexandre-Vauthier-Ruched-velvet-mini-dress-1546511

This is probably the wrong green.

https://www.matchesfashion.com/products/Self-Portrait-Crystal-embellished-crepe-mini-dress-1510893

PollyIndia · 03/10/2023 21:43

My friend just got this for a big day rave thing lots of us are going to at the weekend.
might fit the bill, though maybe not the high neck… https://www.coggles.com/p/clothing/rotate-birger-christensen-open-back-lurex-mini-dress/14203280/

Rotate Birger Christensen Open-Back Lurex Mini Dress | Coggles

https://www.coggles.com/p/clothing/rotate-birger-christensen-open-back-lurex-mini-dress/14203280/

Somethingweirdisgoingon · 03/10/2023 22:05

www.quizclothing.co.uk/clothes/00100036112.html

Baldieheid · 03/10/2023 22:08

Buy the dress you love and have a dressmaker alter the shape of the neckline. A round neck to a v neck is easy for someone trained. It'll cost you, but as a dress it's, what, 90% perfect? Seems an easy fix to me.

OneFrenchEgg · 03/10/2023 22:15

scampanddude.com/products/floaty-short-dress-black-with-metallic-pink-star-and-lightning-bolt

I have this and it's gorgeous

Divebar2021 · 03/10/2023 22:22

Here we go OP

Help! cant find the dress of my imagination
Help! cant find the dress of my imagination
ArseMenagerie · 03/10/2023 22:26

Vintage Laura Ashley cocktail dresses are my bag - loads on eBay

cornflower21 · 03/10/2023 22:29

https://www.google.co.uk/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwjXh-H26NqBAxUpi1AGHT-aCF8YABAfGgJkZw&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI14fh9ujagQMVKYtQBh0mghfEAQYECABEgLrSvDDBwE&sph=&sig=AOD641jbHLZKYsXtOvLvczFX--LapKryw&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwjkydv26NqBAxVFQUEAHa8qB9IQwg8oAHoECAUQeg&adurl=

excelledyourself · 03/10/2023 22:29

I can't link from the app, but Dorothy Perkins has some

Mummyoflittledragon · 04/10/2023 09:55

Baldieheid · 03/10/2023 22:08

Buy the dress you love and have a dressmaker alter the shape of the neckline. A round neck to a v neck is easy for someone trained. It'll cost you, but as a dress it's, what, 90% perfect? Seems an easy fix to me.

Edited

Was going to say the same thing. However, I am not sure that this dress would look so nice with a v neck. It may look as if a piece of fabric is missing.

However, you could look at a boat neck or scoop neckline as both work well with larger breasts.

MayIDestroyYou · 04/10/2023 10:07

The problem with altering a neckline from round to V is that the result can look dowdy if the back doesn’t really work with a V neck. If the back of the neck is rounded the dress can look very odd and unflattering.

So it might, annoyingly, be better just to find a different dress!

Smileatthesmallthings · 04/10/2023 11:42

Collectif is my go to for party dresses and I love this. Most of the styles are really good for bigger boobs too.
www.love-tilly.co.uk/product-page/collectif-deep-green-glitter-star-velvet-pencil-dress

Chipperfish · 04/10/2023 15:28

Some amazing suggestions here, thanks to everyone who replied. Also some great websites Ive never looked at. I did think of buying the initial dress and seeing if it could be altered but thought it might be a bit unpredictable with the sequins and flat structure of the top. Plus I'm not in the UK so have to pay import tax on it, even if I send it back, so I should probably to limit my 'just to try it on' purchases.

I think the Lulus dress from Somethingweird might be closest to my idea - but love the Pretty Kitty one from OhBeAFineGuy and need to have a good look on the Scamp and Dude website, love the starry dress.

I did find a Birger Christensen one https://www.tiffany.dk/sequin-wrap-dress-rt2292-93-blue-iris and also this https://balticborn.com/products/xander-sequin-mini-dress-green-blue although it looks a bit dressing gown like?

But the biggest surprise has been the link to Phase 8 which I had never even thought to look at - it has a lot of stuff that might suit - and now I have to consider whether I would be better in a shimmering jumpsuit, overcome my hatred of wrap dresses, or even go for something totally different with a sheer top

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/petite-stella-bronze-plisse-jumpsuit-221977491.html#cgid=occasion%20jumpsuits&is=true&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=221977491&pos=0

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/carissa-teal-sequin-wrap-mini-dress-221982402.html#cgid=party&is=true&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=221982402&pos=6

https://www.phase-eight.com/product/angel-sequin-mini-dress-221936000.html#cgid=sequins&is=true&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=221936000&pos=4

Rotate Sequin Wrap Dress Rt2292-93, Blue Iris

Sequin Wrap Dress Rt2292-93, Blue Iris

https://www.tiffany.dk/sequin-wrap-dress-rt2292-93-blue-iris

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beetr00 · 04/10/2023 15:46

Personally as far as I can see, wrt Phase8, the majority of their clothing is almost all ~100% polyester at hugely inflated prices 😔

Ruthietuthie · 04/10/2023 16:06

The short teal Carissa dress is absolutely beautiful!

Chipperfish · 04/10/2023 16:34

All those 3 seem to be expensive recycled polyester, and some of them also recycled sequins which I guess is something.

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BaronessBomburst · 04/10/2023 16:39

The wrap Phase Eight dress is lovely!

OhBeAFineGuyKissMe · 04/10/2023 17:16

My DD is the same size as you and has a phase 8 petite dress and it is nicely in proportion. I love the teal wrap dress and the bronze jumpsuit.

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