Can I wear this for my wedding

[NancyIris]

I'll be getting married next year - in my 40s, second marriage, very small wedding. Do not want to wear white as just feels inappropriate. My two teenagers will be there!
Looking at this dress in dark green or silver grey. Would this look like a bride but not too bridal? I won't have bridesmaids. I am approx. size 10 5'7 with no boobs to speak of if that helps.
Venue is very vintage (small period property).

Yes I'd go for the silver for more bridal-but-not-too-bridal, it's gorgeous. Is the bolero removable? It's lovely too, but Id prob only wear that bit if it's not a summer wedding.

Yes, I think that looks lovely in the grey and very appropriate. Less keen on the 'green' which looks a bit costume-y and cheap.

Love it (silver)

Just to be different - I love it in the green and find the grey nice but a bit wishy washy.

Absolutely!

prefer silver as the skirt looks looser which i prefer but it may just be photographs. Generally I love that shade of green

Absolutely beautiful! The grey is more bridal I suppose but I adore that shade of green. It's glamorous and vintage-y and just gorgeous!

I love the silver! I’m not keen on the Green one.

Both absolutely gorgeous!

Gorgeous, both of them!

Beautiful!

Wowzers, gorgeous! I prefer the green but would go silver for your wedding.

You can wear whatever you like...... it's your day! Both are absolutely stunning, and everyone will know you're the bride. Think I prefer silver but it will depend on your skin tone.

The silver one.

You can wear white if you want, absolutely no reason why not!

Thanks all! Quite fair/freckly with blonde-ish hair. The silver was my first thought but worried it might look too white.

Both are gorgeous! I prefer the green as it's more striking but you will look stunning in either.

With the sound of your colouring, the green would look nicer. And more use out of it again in future.

Lovely.

Silver. Very glamorous!

I prefer the green and it sounds as if it would suit your colouring. It's very striking and elegant. The silver is a bit insipid.

Stunning dress, I think the green will go better with your colouring

Gorgeous! I prefer the green.

Definitely go with the grey. It is a gorgeous dress! Perfect for a wedding where yo don’t want to wear white.

Beautiful dress. I’d buy it in both colours and then return the one you decide not to wear. I think it’s not until you see the colours in person you’ll know which is the best for you.

That’s beautiful! Whichever one would suit your colouring most would be best, the green feels more wintery (I got married in bottle green velvet at Christmas time so may be biased!)

The silver would look stunning as a wedding gown and you could dye it to use after if you wanted. My sister dyed a similar wedding dress from ivory to navy and she worn it several times to an evening do.