I think that high waist jeans would help keep the wobbly tummy in place and the flare would balance out the wide hips. Am a size 14. I am totally prepared to treat myself to an expensive pair as I haven't bought myself anything like this in a long time, but.. which ones? Or do I in fact need an expensive pair - would the top shop ones be just as good? Yesterdays Guardian says that Radcliffe SW3's are good, and they are £145 online. I'll do it, but's its a lot of money and I want to be sure. Any recommendations? Anyone got the Radcliffe ones?