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Gown for event In conservative country- help!!

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StarkintheSouth · 20/11/2022 18:50

Just found out I have to attend a super glamorous and formal event in a country that is known for being ultra conservative particularly when it comes to women and what they wear. I also had a baby recently so not that confident about my body…
i don’t want to be shown up as frumpy but also have to respect their rules. It’s also for work so want to make a good impression. So knees covered, shoulders covered no cleavage.
does anyone have any suggestions?

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MolesOnPoles · 20/11/2022 18:54

Ive worn a fabulous Salwar Chemise in similar circumstances. Really elegant and flattering.

Have a look at Khaardi for inspiration.

hugznotdrugz · 20/11/2022 18:54

What size and budget?

ChristmasCakeAndStilton · 20/11/2022 18:55

I'm guessing somewhere in the middle east? You won't be over dressed - they go all out on glamor.

I know it's petite, so probably won't work, but how do you feel about the shoulders on this?

KurriKawari · 20/11/2022 18:55

What is your budget OP?

ReallyITV · 20/11/2022 18:57

If we know the country then can get a culturally appropriate outfit. Wearing shalwar kameez (bar cultural appropriation) might not look right in the Middle East. E,g. Shalwar can be short and show ankles

StarkintheSouth · 20/11/2022 19:07

It is a Middle Eastern country yes. Budget wise thinking up to £300 ish (my credit card will just about handle that..!) Im somewhere between a 10-12 depending on where we’re shopping. Average height.
thank you all so much!

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MarthanotMarfa · 20/11/2022 19:09

Day or night? Meal or standing drinks? Walking or sitting etc I think affect fabric choice

Twilightstarbright · 20/11/2022 19:09

Coast had some long sleeved evening dresses?

StarkintheSouth · 20/11/2022 19:10

@ChristmasCakeAndStilton a contender!!! Love the colour too

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StarkintheSouth · 20/11/2022 19:12

@MarthanotMarfa it’s an evening event - mostly standing around with some eating and drinking (I believe!)

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ChristmasCakeAndStilton · 20/11/2022 19:13

There are some none petite ones of the same style in there too if you look further through the pages. It looks much more stunning in some colours than others, imo.

ChiefDogsbody · 20/11/2022 19:25

I'm on my phone so can't link, but if you go to asos and search for 'modest fashion' there's loads of lovely frocks that would be appropriate.

GettingStuffed · 20/11/2022 21:19

This is lovely but not sure if the lace is ok.www.johnlewis.com/phase-eight-daniela-embellished-maxi-dress-navy/p109121516

NancyJoan · 20/11/2022 21:26

Search ‘modest’ on ASOS and Next. Lots of options on both.

Vexxa · 21/11/2022 07:37

ChristmasCakeAndStilton · 20/11/2022 18:55

I'm guessing somewhere in the middle east? You won't be over dressed - they go all out on glamor.

I know it's petite, so probably won't work, but how do you feel about the shoulders on this?

What a coincidence - I just ordered that dress last night!

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