I'm on a bit of mission to find non-frumpy, flat knee-high boots...i'm late 40s, and have missed them so much..not to wear with skinny jeans anymore, but with short or midi skirts - so I can just go out and not worry about getting cold legs etc...I bought these...but they are just too clumpy for me, but the more delicate ones look old-fashioned...what's the compromise, anyone know!? These are Shoe The Bear, Patti. Thanks.