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Help me find evening dress size 20

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Clinomania · 16/10/2022 18:31

I am attending a very high end black tie event for work in the next 10 days.

I’m mid-40s, currently huge (size 20), 5 ft 7/8. Huge bust.

My budget is 200 or so due to other massive costs at present.

Will also need comfortable shoes that aren’t trainers or boots! I don’t really do heels except but will have to I guess.

Ideal shape for me would be long length, nipped in waist but flowing skirt, wrap top bust. Arms are enormous so some sort of sleeve eg chiffon would be great.

Nothing patterned. I would probably suit navy/purple/dark green/black/gold.

thanks in advance!

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GettingStuffed · 16/10/2022 19:09

I'd wear this, www.monsoon.co.uk/michaela-maxi-dress-in-recycled-polyester-pink-34315373.html they have lots suitable especially if you like jewel colours on black

Pinkcadillac · 16/10/2022 19:48

Scarlet & Jo have a velvet one that is really nice. Also available in Next.

CaronPoivre · 16/10/2022 19:54

Look at Scarlet and Jo they go up to large sizes.

lurchermummy · 16/10/2022 20:30

I'm the same shape and size as you and love the first one posted.

How about some of the bombshell dresses? Pricey but gorgeous

www.bombshellhq.com/products/navy-velvet-bombshell-gown-with-chiffon-sleeves

lurchermummy · 16/10/2022 20:33

Show me wise I'd go for a block heeled sling back by someone like Vionic

lurchermummy · 16/10/2022 20:33

I mean " shoe wise"

notnowmonster · 16/10/2022 20:35

Are we talking ballgowns level of formality?

prinad · 16/10/2022 20:39

www.thandth.com/gowns/camilla-in-emerald

BlueSuffragette · 16/10/2022 20:42

Have you looked on ebay? Often some lovely evening dressing that have been seldom worn.

Motnight · 16/10/2022 20:45

Chesca has some lovely dresses. You can buy direct from them or John Lewis.

greenhousegal · 16/10/2022 20:52

The bombshell navy dress above is really stunning. Gorgeous colour and fits all the OP's criteria. Well worth the money I'd say.

PoundShopPrincess · 16/10/2022 21:11

Fit and flare maxi lace dress - it's a bit more expensive Blue lace maxi
Maxi with faux wrap top and sleeves - it's much cheaper!

Navy maxi dress

I love the dresses from Gingham Doll but they're an acquired taste so I'm throwing them in as a wild card. Gingham Doll

AntimemeticsDivision · 17/10/2022 00:40

OP. I don't think it's as urgent as you think it is.

Very high end?

Nothing's that high-end that you only have a week or so.

What be your do?

Calm.

What do you wear usually?

Clinomania · 17/10/2022 00:41

So many lovely suggestions - thank you!! I had my eye on the BombshellHq one but am worried it won’t be in stock in time. Also, are they definitely worth the money compared to, say, Scarlet & Jo?

Thank you to @MumDrumTum for attempting to find the whole outfit! I do like that dress but worry it won’t hang on me the right way.

i have looked on eBay but no luck.
Th&th is a good find though! Thank you @prinad

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