‘sophisticated’ Goth earrings for the older Goth?

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I’m looking for some small silver studs that would fall under Goth category, but not teen sort of stuff. It’s for a friend who’s in their early 40s Can anyone recommend any online shops? My budget is up to £25. I’ve looked on Etsy but there’s so many and a lot are too cross/dagger/skulls and I’m after something with a Goth edge to it but something that they could wear to work without scaring small children. TIA

Whitby jet? Anything here: https://www.yorkshirejewellerycompany.co.uk/jewellery-c5/earrings-c1/stud-earrings-c8/whitby-jet-t4

A lot of art deco stuff feels quite 'grown-up goth', so maybe something from here? www.etsy.com/uk/search?q=silver%20art%20deco%20stud

Look on Regalrose.
Some of it is a bit skull and dagger but I've bought myself a few things from them and they are good for the price.

Some of the things here might work.

asaboveuk.com/

Have a look at ‘sour cherry’