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Occasion dress, size 14 was 20, dress gurus needed urgently

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Serenitesummer · 01/06/2022 10:55

I really need help with finding a dress. I know there are so many of these threads, I’ve read them all snd am at a total loss. Please stylish dressers help🙏
Please post some ideas. I am so stuck.
I’ve been scrolling through 100’s of dresses and have no idea what to get.
I don’t mind colour, something different, stylish, it’s quite a formal wedding in country house after church ceremony.
I’m 5’6 blonde, carry weight on tummy after children. I have been so focused on getting weight off for this occasion and really despondent that the dress I wanted to wear is too tight. I don’t think I can loose 1/2 stone in time, it’s too much pressure. I couldn’t guarantee that even if I did the weight ok would come off my middle.
This wedding is in 10 days.
I’d ordered dresses but they don’t look nice and I’m so disheartened after loosing all this weight - can’t believe they won’t work. The dresses I ordered were Coast size 14 but too tight around the tummy, where I carry my weight. Wouldn’t normally bought from coast but I like these dresses. Can’t order up as there is no size 16 available and I think it doesn’t flatter a tummy anyway.

Dress must have sleeves or an ability to put them in to cover up. I’ll consider anything but would love to look super stylish and modern. I love Bardot type dresses as I have to cover up my arms, I feel it is a nice look on me.
I live v rurally and cannot get to shops so must be online. Online delivery 5 days to here, in Uk but rural.
I will be checking in constantly to see if any ideas, am thinking positively that mumsnet can help!

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SilentBob · 01/06/2022 15:17

Here I am again! I bought this recently and it is so flattering, I find myself recommending it on every dress thread. I also have a tummy and this magical dress hid it! It's from SilkFred

I second this dress, I now have it in 3 different colours and it’s so flattering and versatile.

PinkTonic · 02/06/2022 15:06

Wyse

Whistles

Jigsaw

PinkTonic · 02/06/2022 15:21

Baujken

Bombshell

EinsteinaGogo · 02/06/2022 15:26

Yes to those who said Bombshell... perfect for curves & big bust glam!

www.bombshellhq.com/products/bombshell-red-grace-tie-front-shirt-dress

Occasion dress, size 14 was 20, dress gurus needed urgently
RosieRoww · 02/06/2022 19:19

https://www.scarlettandjo.com/products/annabelle-angel-sleeve-midi-dress?currency=GBP&utmmedium=cpc&utmmsource=google&utmcampaign=Google%20Shopping&variant=39354131054639

SilentBob · 06/06/2022 14:47

@GettingItOutThere It's SilkFred here- www.silkfred.com/womens/clothing/dresses/maxi-dresses/dancing-leopard/dove-dress-in-bamboo

Palavah · 06/06/2022 18:11

OP how are you getting on?

EggRollsForever · 06/06/2022 21:42

Have a look on Fb for these groups. Masses of dresses being resold. "Pre-loved Wedding and Occasion Outfits UK" probably the best one for you and "Mother of the Bride & Groom" People resell dresses at great prices.

EggRollsForever · 06/06/2022 21:43

www.facebook.com/groups/519932719462286

starlingdarling · 06/06/2022 21:53

SilentBob · 06/06/2022 14:47

I have this dress in the navy star print and it's sooooo flattering. I'm 5ft 2 and have to tuck some of the skirt under the belt but it makes me look slim and (according to DH) a few inches taller.

ballstomonty · 06/06/2022 21:59

I think a 50s style dress would work well, high waisted and a line something like this-prettykittyfashion.co.uk/products/vintage-red-3-4-sleeve-belted-50s-swing-dress?variant=32373652979761&currency=GBP&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=EAIaIQobChMIhd_Fo9uZ-AIV2vZRCh1sQAiNEAQYAiABEgIwCPD_BwE

Vivienne of Holloway is good too but most are short sleeved

AnotherEmma · 06/06/2022 22:01

Well done for your weight loss, that's amazing.

would this suit your shape?
www.johnlewis.com/phase-eight-hannah-pleated-midi-dress-mineral/p5896515

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