I have three weddings coming up in the next few months - all with different groups of people so can wear the new dress to all of them. I want something that is comfortable, flattering, short to 3/4 sleeves (to cover the bingo wings) and be strong enough to withstand an excited toddler. I'm in my 40's, 5'2" and a size 12/14. My budget is tight - hit me with some ideas!