A group I've only recently become part of going to a seaside pub to see a band outdoors.
I'd originally planned denim shorts, abstract print floaty strapy top and a lose thin linen jumper. Trainers. I was happy 
Now it looks like it will be downright chilly and jeans are causing me difficulty at present. Skinnies are apparently all wrong and wide leg jeans are either scruffy or too formal to my eyes. Mum jeans, look exactly like what they are. Something my mum would have worn 30 years ago! I do not think it's a look I can pull off in my 50s.
I have some dark wide leg jeans that look good on my shape, but they're quite "smart" (maybe too smart for this occasion?) and I'm struggling to find tops and shoes that work with them.