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Dress for elderly mother for funeral

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TimeIhadaNameChange · 10/06/2021 11:28

Please help! I need to find something for my mother to wear to a funeral next week. I have 101 things to do and I really don't know where to start with this as my initial attempts didn't bring up anything suitable.

She's about 5 foot, size 14, doesn't want black or navy. If someone could give me a clue as to where to look I'd be incredibly grateful.

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Evenstar · 10/06/2021 11:35

My mother liked the petite ranges of brands like Eastex and Fenn Wright Manson or Jacques Vert. John Lewis certainly stock FWM, and we have a small independent department store near us that has the others.

Jumpingintosummer · 10/06/2021 13:17

How about something like this with a black pashmina?

Dress for elderly mother for funeral
Tehmina23 · 10/06/2021 15:12

My mum is 5 foot & size 14! She's 72.
She doesn't do online shopping so has to stick with what's in our local mall.
She gets pretty midi length dresses (which end up more maxi on her so she sometimes shortens them). Or tiered floral long skirts with plain tops.
From our local Next, M&S, Tu at Sainsbury, Monsoon, even H&M.
Either of these looks (dress / or long skirt & top) would be suitable for a colourful summer funeral.

Tehmina23 · 10/06/2021 15:13

Ps mum finds that many actual petite ranges tend to only fit women who are petite all over, not just in height.

JesusWeptonaBike · 10/06/2021 15:18

John Lewis would be a good place to look as the have lots brands in one place

Evenstar · 10/06/2021 15:26

Seasalt have some lovely dresses in their petite range if a print pattern would be acceptable, they have some quite muted colours www.seasaltcornwall.co.uk/clothing/dresses-tunics

motogogo · 10/06/2021 15:32

Do you have an independent shop near her you could take her to, better than a busy mall

DonLewis · 10/06/2021 15:33

Have you tried sainsburys? I know it's hardly couture, but plenty of styles, easy to return, doesn't cost a lot.

NellietheNumpty · 10/06/2021 16:42

What about this one from Next.
www.next.co.uk/style/st494243/279574#279574
It would be longer on your mum. Sadly a black dress may be an item she may wear again.

waltzingparrot · 10/06/2021 17:17

I always think elderly ladies look very elegant at funerals in a simple, plain, well tailored shift dress. They usually add a broach to finish it off stylishly. No idea what colour if she doesn't want black/navy.

AdaColeman · 10/06/2021 17:42

Would she wear grey or purple?

Can she get to a John Lewis, or buy on line?

TimeIhadaNameChange · 10/06/2021 22:28

Thank you so much everyone, I finally have a few minutes to myself so will go through all your suggestions.

Should have said it has to be something online as there's no way she can get to the shops, so I'll get a few and send back what she doesn't want.

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Candleabra · 10/06/2021 22:40

I like that m&s dress a lot.
Is the funeral specifically no black/navy or is that your mum's stipulation?

TimeIhadaNameChange · 10/06/2021 23:30

@Candleabra

I like that m&s dress a lot. Is the funeral specifically no black/navy or is that your mum's stipulation?
It's just my mum's stipulation. There are only going to be two (extended) families at the funeral so no real need to do anything for others, but she wants to wear something nice for our friend, to honour his life.
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Blossomtoes · 12/06/2021 01:00

[quote Squiz81]What’s her budget?
I love the colour of this

www.phase-eight.com/product/mylee-tie-belt-dress-220372071.html#cgid=midi&is=false&sz=60&start=0&isSecondPage=false&pid=220372071&pos=38[/quote]
That’s really nice. Very appropriate too.

JoveWhenHeSawMyFannysFace · 12/06/2021 01:14

I can imagine my 70-something mother wearing this

www.cottontraders.com/women/dresses/floral-burn-out-dress/AG10610.html

nevertrustaherdofcows · 12/06/2021 08:39

This? V good value for silk; comes up large so you could get away with a 12 if a 14 doesn't come back in

www.hobbs.com/product/chelsea-silk-dress/0219-5148-3642L00-BLACK-MULTI.html#isSecondPage=false&start=0&sz=60&q=silk&is=false&prefn1=pattern&prefv1=Floral&pid=0219-5148-3642L00-BLACK-MULTI&pos=14

newnortherner111 · 12/06/2021 09:22

I hope in the circumstances your mum feels able to honour her friend's life, and may he rest in peace.

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