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Help me decide on a smallish crossbody bag (experience with demellier/similar?)

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vikjul · 13/02/2020 10:00

This is my first post on Style & Beauty, but I have lurked here now and then, lately especially on various handbag threads! Hoping to get some advice that will prevent me from spending more hours than I already have on this handbag decision (apologies in advance for the essay!):

I would like to buy a smallish crossbody that would work as an evening bag, as I don't own one (apart from various small velvet/glittery clutches and similar for weddings/black tie events that I almost never have reason to use nowadays). I would like it to be versatile in terms of colour and style to suit different seasons and both casual/slightly more formal use.

Wish list:

  • budget perhaps around 3-400 euros but not fixed.
  • crossbody with leather strap (not metal chain)
  • hardware preferably in white metal rather than gold. If gold, preferably pale and not too much!
  • size: ideally needs to fit cardholder, phone, keys and smallish hairbrush, possibly reading glasses (approaching 50 in a few years so tend to need them in restaurants!)
  • it would be nice if it could also be used for the occasional hotel breakfast/day out sightseeing, so a style that could work as casual if needed
  • not a deal breaker, but I prefer soft to stiff leather (I have a purse from Aspinal which is beautiful but too stiff for my taste)
  • discreet branding
  • colour: I am considering cognac/oak, black or dark green. Should ideally work all year round (winter wardrobe tends to be black/grey/olive/dark green; summer wardrobe tends to be white/olive/black/beige – but also patterned dresses).

Style-wise, I really like the Mulberry small Darley satchel and I am sure I would love the feel of it:

www.mulberry.com/gb/shop/mini-bags/small-darley-satchel-black-matte-croc

However, apart from the fact that it is more than I am hoping to spend, I will not buy Mulberry on principle as I have bad experience with their quality and customer service (I have a 7-year old Alexa that, while lovely, has required repair twice, in neither case covered by the guarantee).

I have my eyes especially on the Demellier mini Venice,

www.demellierlondon.com/the-mini-venice.html?color=146

... but am wondering

a) is it small enough to look good as an evening bag?
b) could the pine green work as a year round colour? I find that oak/cognac works year round for a day bag, but am not sure about how well it would suit evening wear. I love green and think it would be fun, but not sure about versatility? Perhaps safer to go for black?

(I have also considered the smaller version, nano Venice, but think that for the investment, it would be nice if the bag could also work size-wise for day use sometimes e.g. on holiday, as an alternative to the Alexa which is quite heavy to lug around.)

I have also considered these:

Ralph Lauren mini Lennox (but not sure if the buckle is too conspicuous …):

www.ralphlauren.eu/se/en/leather-mini-lennox-bag-465472.html?cgid=women-accessories-bags&dwvar465472_colorname=Black&webcat=women%2Faccessories%2FBags#prefn1=shopByStyle&prefv1=Lennox%20Collection&webcat=women%7Caccessories%7CBags&start=1&cgid=women-accessories-bags

Longchamps crossbody Foulonné, nice feel to it, but perhaps a bit boring…:

www.longchamp.com/gb/en/products/crossbody-bag-L1322021047.html

I have this Abro bag at home at the moment, and it sort of suits my basic requirements but I don’t love the feel of it, so will probably return it:

www.fashionette.se/abro-palmellato-crossbody-bag-black-nickel

I like the look of the Kate Spade Lula small saddle bag, but don’t like the fact that it is multi-coloured or the distinct buckle. I have also thought about the Coach Sadie crossbody (nice and soft!), but find the branding a bit too conspicuous… I love several Russell Bromley bags (e.g. their camera bags), but unfortunately they don’t ship outside the UK…

Any inspired suggestions of something that might be similar to the above/to the Mulberry Darley that I have missed...? And my main question: would you consider the Demellier mini Venice with the above wishlist, and which colour would you go for?

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vikjul · 13/02/2020 10:15

Also thought about this (demellier oxford) as a possible candidate...:

www.demellierlondon.com/the-oxford.html?color=565

or

www.demellierlondon.com/the-oxford.html?color=113

Not sure, though, whether grained leather or croc is better for evening/holiday daytime use...

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vikjul · 13/02/2020 10:17

Oh yes, just realised that I forgot to ask the question that made me post here in the first place: if you have a demellier bag, do you find the leather on the soft or stiff side?

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Aderyn19 · 13/02/2020 15:43

If I were you I'd have another look at Coach. For the price, the quality is great. It's difficult to get something which does evening as well as day, but I think croc is better than grain in that respect.

slipperyeel · 13/02/2020 16:38

I like this:
www.johnlewis.com/gerard-darel-reporter-small-leather-cross-body-bag-black/p4897207

Also try Mimi Berry and Hands of Tym for small scale perfectly made bags

slipperyeel · 13/02/2020 16:40

www.mimiberry.co.uk/products/francis-navy-3

goingoverground · 13/02/2020 16:58

I was given this Neta Sade bag as a gift from a client in Israel:

www.emanuel-online.com/women/tiqi-erb/tiq-gvrdvn-erb.html

It has a detachable cross body strap but it also comes with a wrist strap for evening wear.

goingoverground · 13/02/2020 17:04

They have others a bit more similar to the Darley satchel:

www.emanuel-online.com/women/tiqi-erb.html

Miseryisabutterfly · 13/02/2020 17:29

Way under your budget, but & other stories have some gorgeous leather bags.

Miseryisabutterfly · 13/02/2020 17:29

Also Sandro

swimster01 · 13/02/2020 18:53

I second Mimi Berry for understated quality handbags

vikjul · 13/02/2020 20:48

I have looked at all the suggestions, all to my taste so thank you! Yes, perhaps croc more versatile than grained for day to night use.., I quite like both...

Will have a look again at Coach but not sure... (I am also slightly obsessed with the demellier bags but can’t make up my mind about leather, size and colour...)

I would like to get a bag that feels really special so that I don’t feel the need to replace it for a long time. Perhaps I need to let go of some of the conflicting requirements... the main problem is that I would like a bag that is understated but still eye-catching... and with a colour that works for every situation.

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TheWashingMachine · 14/02/2020 04:52

I got one in whistles recently it is awesome but I can fit two phones, my purse, a hair brush, a pair of spare tights, lipstick and concealer in it. Look on the website

vikjul · 15/02/2020 15:12

I ended up ordering this (30% off!):

www.longchamp.com/pt/en/products/crossbody-bag-L1395HND001.html

Very pleased!

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Ninkanink · 15/02/2020 16:18

Oh I do like a Longchamp! I think for long term you should probably get another bag for daytime. Firstly because with constant use the croc effect will start to wear, but also because if you use your evening bag all the time it won’t feel special or add anything new to more dressy outfits.

I like the Mini Venice, I think it would make a good day bag and a very nice holiday bag with it’s more relaxed feel. I’d buy it in cognac grain as to me a holiday bag should be tan, or a lighter colour like white/yellow/rose etc.

I’ve also heard really good things about Aurora London from a few of my friends. Reasonably priced, good quality and lovely range of colours. They do %off codes fairly often. I think their Gigi bag is great, I love it in the navy:

www.aurora-london.com/new-the-gigi-bag

Ninkanink · 15/02/2020 16:19

Goddammit I hate it when it un-corrects my perfectly correct ‘its’!!

Ninkanink · 15/02/2020 16:25

Anyway...

I think if I were you I would get the cognac mini Venice next, maybe in the summer sales, and then get the navy Gigi in the Black Friday sales.

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