Looking for advice on my hair! Pics attached

[TheImprobableGirl]

Using an old name so as not to be COMPLETELY outed - but after a bit of advice on what to do. Obviously as you can see by the pics attached my hair is dry/damaged but I am off to an anniversary mini-break and wanted some opinions on what to do.
Options are:
a) leave how it is, carry on with the hair masks and deep conditioning treatments, perhaps think about Olaplex?
b) put a little more bleach on the middle orangey bits to try and lift them to the same as the bottom blonde bits, I've got some great toner (Scott Cornwall) so I should be able to neutralise the yellow when that happens, but it needs to be lifted first - dangers of this is obviously more damage
c) cut all the really damaged bits off and go for a graduated bob - I've had this done before and it worked well, but need the front bits to be longer

What do you reckon? Open to all other options too!

Oh when I go for a graduated bob I'd probably put a dark chocolate colour on it too all over... it used to look like this

Well I have both managed to bugger up my face covering and my name change

I love your bob - it looks great!

The dark one? I agree it's a good cut but it makes me look older

any more opinions? Am I doomed!?

I would chop it off. Then colour it. Could be shorter you get a bit of interest/texture from the lighter ends but cut away the worse of the dry ends.

I think the dark cut and colour looks classy and not older.

But it depends on your personal style I guess.

Is cut off the lightest bit and have it like the second pic again as looks lovely there

ah fair enough, its pretty unanimous ill get booked in