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What to wear underneath a black tie formal suit. DD18

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Ynci · 30/05/2019 12:48

My DD has her leaver’s ball at the end of the month. You guys have been brilliant over the year helping me navigate social occasions where her usual boots, jeans and check shirt don’t quite work!
We have a beautiful sequinned suit (see photo of jacket) which she looks lovely in and, most importantly, feels comfortable and confident in. However, we can’t work out what to wear underneath. A shirt seems to much. I was thinking a little, very brightly coloured silky top. Whatever it is it needs to make the most of her natural assets - a fabulous cleavage!
I’m crap at shopping (and live in boots and jeans myself!) and we live in the middle of nowhere so trips to large shopping centres are a no go.

Can anyone point me in the right direction of where I could buy something suitable on line? Or I’m really up for other suggestion of what to wear underneath. Many thanks!

What to wear underneath a black tie formal suit. DD18
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StCharlotte · 30/05/2019 12:51

Tinny and Susannah I am not but I think that jacket is so stylish in itself, I wouldn't want to detract from it. So I'd wear a simple black cami. I think someone was recommending some from Wallis a couple of days ago.

Bodear · 30/05/2019 12:52

How about a corset style top?

TwattingDog · 30/05/2019 12:52

Ooh, that's a gorgeous suit!!

What about something fab like a bustier or corset? You can get them in vivid fabrics, even on eBay?

TwattingDog · 30/05/2019 12:54

rover.ebay.com/rover/0/0/0?mpre=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ebay.co.uk%2Fulk%2Fitm%2F202450822294 Does this link work? It should be the Floral Dark Red corset, just by way of example.

Ynci · 30/05/2019 12:59

Ooh! Corset! Hadn’t thought about that! Will have to do some googling.

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TokenGinger · 30/05/2019 13:01

New Look always have simple cami tops that would look lovely. You don't want something too over the top as the jacket speaks for itself.

Black, white or nude. A bright colour will just cheapen the look.

www.newlook.com/uk/womens/clothing/tops/black-ring-back-cami/p/629249901

A bralette would also look lovely underneath.

www.newlook.com/uk/womens/clothing/lingerie/black-lace-bandeau-bralette/p/616996701

Ynci · 30/05/2019 13:09

TokenGinger, I think she would like the cami top as well. If she needed to take the jacket off, the outfit would still look stylish! And we do have a new look within a reasonable distance!
The matching trousers only have sequins in a wide strip down the outside leg.

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TokenGinger · 30/05/2019 18:22

She will look lovely. Such a beautiful jacket xx

Rooftree · 30/05/2019 19:13

I also agree with black cami, the jacket is the star, the rest of the outfit should be simple

Ynci · 30/05/2019 21:19

Thanks guys for the advice. I have been online and ordered a “selection” of silky cami tops. Some black some not. Hoping one will be perfect.
It is a beautiful jacket and I’m hoping she’ll get more than one wear out of the suit! She’s a very cheap teen to run generally so I didn’t mind splashing out to find the right outfit.

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puppylovebaby · 30/05/2019 21:39

Simple black cami. She will look really elegant x

hereiam19 · 30/05/2019 21:44

I would wear a lovely white T-shirt - casual is so in atm. What is she wearing on the bottom half?

Ynci · 31/05/2019 18:12

Hereiam19, the jacket is part of a suit with black trousers with a strip of sequins down the outside of each leg. A bit like military trousers but black sequins.
I like your suggestion of a white t-shirt but I always find then a bit thin and see through. Can you recommend any retailers that have quality T-shirt’s that might suit?

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TooMinty · 31/05/2019 18:14

Where did you get the suit from, it's amazing! Might be my next outfit for a black tie do...

Ynci · 31/05/2019 18:18

Ted Baker. I think I ordered it from Very. Wasn’t cheap, but as I said earlier, she’s not an expensive teen and rarely asks for much!

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Alsohuman · 31/05/2019 18:48

That suit’s to die for. I’d just put a black cami under it. She’s going to look stunning.

TooMinty · 31/05/2019 19:18

Ted Baker - thanks OP! My credit card might take a bashing...

Ynci · 02/06/2019 20:50

She wouldn’t wear anything sheer. Although it would look lovely on the right person!

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LIZS · 02/06/2019 20:52

Bright cami top? Uniqlo have some with built in support

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