We're going to a family wedding in June and I wouldn't feel comfortable not wearing tights as I usually I either have on thick black opaque tights or jeans (never bare legs).
I've had a look online and John Lewis appear to do a 20 denier pair of neutral tights but the colours don't sound as though they'd suit pale skin and would look very obvious.
Can you wise Mumsnetters recommend a toddler friendly pair of skin-tone tights that would work on pale skin (think almost milk-bottle white!)?