Bridesmaids are in pink, what colour for the pageboys, ushers ect?

[pabamella]

Asked my SIL today.

And i dont know! The groom will not wear pink - so what colour for the men?

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ivory ties/waistcoats

My 3 year old nephew wore a navy sailor suit for ours BUT that was 16 years ago

So is probably very old fashioned now isn't it?

light grey suits and ivory waistcoats with a pink buttonhole or very very light pink cravat?

what colour is the brides dress?

could the groom not match that and the ushers match the bridesmaids?

ivory cravats / waistcoats, esp if bride is in ivory

Lilac / Violet?

A bit more masculine than pink but still "gentle"