What do you think of my hair?

[BunnyBob]

Is this a frumpy mum bob? From the front I have a side part without a fringe.

Love it..I had my hair like that until recently, I'm growing mine now.

Depends on the rest of your style tbh! Why you asking?

No it’s nice!

Reading a frumpy bob thread got me wondering if I had one? It might be too short to class as a reverse mullet (hopefully).

Thanks, feeling reassured so far!

It’s not a bob. It looks quite similar to what known as a ‘can I speak to the manager’ haircut I think.

It's perfectly lovely and not grumpy at all!

*FFS - frumpy not grumpy 😀

It's ace, you look fab.

There is no hair style a middle age woman is allowed to have. Short hair is sensible and 'giving up'. A bob is called 'a mum bob' and is boring. Long hair is trying to hold onto your youth. So just have it how you want.

The colour is lovely. I'm guessing you're a natural blonde, if not your hairdresser is amazing. I wouldn't day its frumpy at all, in fact I think it's quite stylish.

I do have a fab hairdresser! My hair is naturally dark mousey blonde, it's highlighted using foils on the longer parts on the top and she paints some blonde directly onto the shorter parts. I am quite grey now though- especially round the temples, so have to have the roots done every six weeks! I've had it this short for a few years since I lost it all through chemo and it tends to look thicker shorter as it's much finer than it was previously. So glad no-one has said it's too 90's yet!

I like it. I agree with @countfosco though, you basically can’t win unless you’re in your 20’s with a perfect figure, then your hair, any style, is fine. After that - forget it.

'Frumpy mum bob' and 'can I speak to the manager haircut' are unpleasant misogynistic put downs aimed at undermining the confidence of middle aged women. I do wish posters on Style and Beauty would not stoop to them.

OP - your hair looks fab.

@TheNavigator I completely agree, weird shitty put downs to strangers on a forum that should be for discussion not venom.

Love it op, similar to my hair, plus easy to mess it up and texture it when you like

I like it.

I saw a woman with a cut like that, but shorter I. E. Shaved underneath but long on top, looked really funky.

Think it needs a bit more shape, sort of like you're not being bold enough with it? But it's fine and very practical

Its lovely.
Looks in great condition, and the colours are really well done.

Depends on your clothes, make-up, etc I’d say - the vibe of this sort of cut can vary. It’s a good cut and colour. If you like it there’s certainly no need to change it.

I think good cut and colour there. Looks good. Thumbs up from me

I've never heard of a 'can I speak to the manager haircut' before . Blue- I did take this photo at the end of a day at work- it does tend to fall a bit flat by then- when I've had more time I do 'style' it up a bit more with a bit more volume at the crown and sleeker at the front. I dress quite conventionally- dresses and opaques for work and skinny jeans and tops at the weekend with heeled boots but I try to look smart and a little glamorous - I always wear some make-up and lipstick, even on a weekday!

@GimmeBread How rude.

@Chewbecca Even! That's not nice.

Nice!

That’s not what I think of when I see frumpy mum bob on here.

I like it.