I gave up with jeans (and trousers) several years ago because I came to the conclusion I just looked rubbish in them whatever pair I tried. I only wear dresses. However, it would be useful at times to have a pair.
I have a 12" difference between waist and hips, huge thighs but a flat bottom. Size 14/16 depending on the shop or garment. One of the reasons I gave up with jeans was that skinnies were the only game in town, I always liked bootcut or actual flares (big feet as well as big thighs). I see bootcut seem to be back a bit, but can't see good reviews for any with bottom shaping capabilities.
I also hate going to shops - buy all clothes online.
Any advice??