do you look in the mirror...

[doughnuts]

and ever think that you look hip/fab/groovy,bitchin' or stylish or do you feel frumpy ? and how can we avoid middle aged invisibility ?

arf

at 37+3 weeks pg, aged 36 and >13 stone that would be a no

I focus on specifics
'ooh what loevly earrings' (ignore windblown hair)
'my hair is shiny today' (ignore haggard face)
'I am standing up nice and straight' (ignore fat ankles)