I'll try to link it.....
I'm wearing this soon and I have shoulder length hair.
I think it probably need to be pulled back into a pony tail to show off the top/my shoulders. Pony tails for me are for when my hair looks crap so I don't associate it with elegance and looking good My skills are limited to pulling it back and shoving in a band.
What can I do? What can I dress it up with? I looked at hair accessories but I can't imagine wearing one of those feathery things.