The thing is, I hate wearing a bra and will avoid it whenever possible. This isn't a fit issue - I've had a proper fitting and I've also tried the BOB sizing method - it's just me! I can't bear a tight band around my ribs / under my breasts. I do have some reasonably comfy bras for work but the first thing I do when I get home is take it off. I would really like an alternative for when I don't really need to wear a bra but also don't want to be completely hanging loose, ahem, iyswim. So are there any good secret support tops, preferably vest tops, with some support and lift that are not too restrictive, and don't create a mono-boob? Any suggestions / links gratefully received!