I'm 42 and until I hit 30 had blonde natural hair. Over last 10 years its got alot duller. I think it might not be helped that I don't sit out in the sun so much which used to bleach it. Last time I went to the hairdressers I asked to have some highlights put in. My hairdresser was reluctant to put any peroxide on to my hair as said would look unnatural so I was left disapointed as it didn't look any different. Not sure what she used but didn't contain peroxide? I wanted sun kissed chunky blonde highlights especially around the front around my face. What do I need to ask for please??