Dear god alive, I’m only 40, I’ve got a 3 year old DS and somehow I’ve ended up in ‘convenient’ tops, jeans and flats. Work clothes are ok, I do a personal shopper once a year and have a defined ‘look’ which is current, but casual clothes are awful. I want to be stylish/slightly edgy without looking too try-hard, and I also don’t want to look like my sons granny!!! Any tips for redefining my style?