This might be a weird question but how does one get a sexy look? I’m a mum and think i look ‘nice’ but no longer sexy. I want that sultry, smouldering look whereas I have a big smile and big hair that always falls into nice, neat parting. I look ‘nice’ and friendly rather than va va vroom. So is this possible or just a state of mind which I need to change. If possible, any tips?