Which style secret...

[applespearsandraspberries]

...do you wish you had sussed years ago and not just recently?!

The revelation that if you look at a photo of yourself taken today 10 years on, chances are you’ll think you look great.

Discovering Oasis tops on a John Lewis personal shopping afternoon. Their shell tops with capped/ high sleeves soot my large bossom and are slimming/ smart in silky type fabrics. They are now my go to tops - so much more flattering & smart than v necks on me.

Discovering that M&S do long length swimsuits- so much more comfortable/ flattering on my tall frame than tankinis

totally agree avoid patterns. Always look shit
Think carefully about t shirts as you age - a top sometimes looks better - ditto flipflops v summer sandals

yes also - LOSE THE WEIGHT - I know its not easy but shit life is better slimmer

I also had my colours done and ever looked back

Don't save things for best
Wear what you like and wear it with confidence.
Confidence is key

Don’t wasted money going to a salon to have your top lip or armpits waxed, use a bit of Nair, nice and cheap, smooth and quick

Another vote for getting colours done. Shopping is also so much quicker and easier now too

I would say try stuff on even if you don't think it's really 'you'.
I've always thought I couldn't do dresses but decided just to have a day trying them on, all different styles, and managed to not be horrified at what I saw in the mirror and actually came home with one!