7 wks postnatal, frumpy please help me choose new hair

[Piffle]

Have been in hair wilderness (literally) due to pregnancy (no dyeing, or maintenance)
Have shoulder length hair but not all one length. It waves and ringlets if coaxed, quite thick, brunette.
Want to look more done - got my hairdresser doing home visit tomorrow
Please help...
Could upload photo if really needed but would rather not
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

might have to go off as baby awakens for cluster feeding epic no doubt,
Will be back later

Bumping for you, but no helpful advice, I'm afraid.

obv am destined to remain a frump

is it layered or one length as layers could take the thickness out, have you seen any pics you like>?

tbh its quite a sodding mess
shortest is at front (side parts long fringe tucked behind or worn to the side.) length is below ears
At longest(underneath) it is just past shoulder length...

Gonna need to see a pic I am afraid

Hard to know without seeing what you look like, face shape and so on

ahhh shit...

Piffle - I had a thought - the hairdresser might ask you if you want to keep the length, i.e. do you tie it back much? Worth thinking about before she comes?

if I tie it back I look about 105
I do want some length taking off and some of the thickness...

Bumping again for Piffle.

Just do not cut it off, what you really want is a new size 10 body and to feel fab again not a change of hairstyle, anything drastic and you'll regret it big time, been there got the t shirt.

How about a bob? That way you can still tuck it behind your ears but the baby won't be able to pull on it. Wishing I'd had a bob last time I went to hairdresser (too expensive to go back again).

What did you decide on in the end, Piffle?