Hi I'm 12 weeks into growing out a pixie cut and last week, I had it trimmed at the back and my fringe so I can work towards a sort of choppy bob eventually. I've got thick wavy hair that sticks out, and while I'm growing it I'm thinking of having it longish and choppy on top and kind of roughed up if you get me, with no parting and brought forward. A bit like the style on this pic - if you add a few decades!
So what products should I use to get this effect? I don't want hard or crispy hair