To grow old gracefully - or disgracefully? (ie What shall I do with my white hairs?)

[PrettyCandles]

Ds1 says I should dye them ginger, as I used to get ginger hairs before I got white ones (though not nearly as many ginger as white).

Dd says I should dye them pink.

My mum says I should either get highlights or dye them back to my normal haircolour.

Dh says nothing ("Does my bum look big in this" discretion).

So which should it be?

I'm now in my (gulp) 40s, have very dark brown hair, enough white that I notice, but I don't think I'm salt-and-pepper yet.

get some highlights and lowlights - dish=guise the worst of the grey but you dont get obv roots every few weeks. also you can fade them progressively if you do you choose to grey.

What are lowlights?

I'm getting more grey hairs than I care for and I'm 29! Oh, what's a gal to do?...