Currently shoulder length long bob, straight and fine. Natural hair is dark blonde/light brown. I get it highlighted every 3-5 months but I'm BORED.
A close family member is a hairdresser so she normally comes to mine to do it when i eventually get round to it but she's now on mat leave and will be busy for the foreseeable with her new baby.
I have it scraped back every day into a ponytail for work because i am up very early and have never been a hair do person due to lack of skill! and patience And im fed up seeing other people's lovely hair and mine is always crap. I wash it at night and let it dry naturally because i cant be bothered drying it!
Was thinking of going uber short but then that'll need cut more often.
I really like the look of my short bob when it's first done but i only ever styled it a handful of times over months and months and just left it otherwise or tied it back.
Coming to the highlights, I'm fed up with them and i end up just having them growing out for months until i get round to booking an appointment.
A colleague mentioned buying a box and doing it myself? I have never ever done this and it gives me the fear back to when i dyed a school friends hair orange instead of blonde 
A fleeting thought crossed my mind the other day about a loose perm...? I love waves.
I'm looking for a look fab miracle with minimal effort! 
Can anyone help this desperate mum of 2 who has lost her mojo and feels frumpy and unattractive??