4 weeks to transform myself. Help!!

[Batwomanrisesagain]

So in 4 weeks I go abroad on a trip with friends I have not seen for many years. Face book tells me they have aged incredibly well, think slim, blonde, wrinkle free and stylish. We are all in our 40s.
My planned year of hard work to lose weight and transform myself has not happened and now I'm in a panic. I have money to throw at this and need help!!!
I'm going to book in for a hair cut/highlight. Also nails, what so I ask for? Haven't ever had my nails done. Am considering Botox (seriously) but not sure where to start.
And clothes, need stylish clothes for aweeoend in the sun! I'm size 14-16, but thinking may be able to starve off half a stone before I go!!
Any tips, clothes recommendations or miracles appreciated!!!!

[TitaniasCloset]

I'm so sorry for your loss. That's tragic news. I hope you are OK OP and I wish you the best. Really does put everything into perspective.

[elephantcuddles]

So sorry for your loss, Batwoman.

[Sylvannas]

Cut out all sugar and fats from your diet, also avoid bread and go gluten free for everything else. Sadly is not what people want to hear but exercise will help you lose the weight and also tone up. Gel nails, spray tan always makes me feel a million dollars also.
Agree with others on here, don't believe everything you see on Facebook. People only put photos up they want seen.

[Sylvannas]

Goodness just seen your update! I'm so sorry!