Please help point me in the right direction. I'm a size 12 with a considerable flap of mum tum and 32G boobs. I've soon got to go to a wedding abroad, including staying in villa with DH's kid-free friends. After 2 kids and the associated body changes, I need a decent swimsuit so I don't feel like a flabby frump next to the flat-stomached, stretch-mark free wives and girlfriends!
I want a swimsuit with tummy control - preferably ruched effect to disguise my flappy stomach - and underwired top. I've looked at John Lewis, Debenhams, Bravissimo, M&S and general google search but all I seem to find are either tummy control with padded cups or underwire without decent tummy control / camouflage. Am I looking for the impossible or just looking in the wrong place? Probably the wrong time of year to look but with the wedding in a few weeks I don't have the time to wait for summer stock to arrive in shops.
Thanks