What tops do you wear? Other women seem to get it right & im stuck in Bretons or black jersey tshirts. Looking around I see lots of shirts buttoned to the collar, which isn't a look that works on me as my chest is a bit too big. I want to look stylish but not overdone iyswim. I'm mid 30's & would like something to wear with jeans, culottes, pencil skirts... any sugggestions?