How do you dress in your thirties

[QueenLizIII]

i feel like I want to change my style and be more stylish.

I am fine with work clothes but just general clothing.

Where to shop, what it in style right now?

Following . I'm a mum of four and feel a big mess. Will be 35 in December and feel OLD

When you say general clothing do you mean casual clothing? What do you actually like to wear?! What colours suit you? What are your proportions? I try to wear things that suit me, with a nod to fashion. I'm 35. I've come to realise just because something is stylish doesn't mean it looks good on me! Blogs/Instagram give you a wide source of inspiration.

I second the comments about blogs.
I love schoolrunstyle and doesmybumlook40.

I'm having a bit of a style moment as I approach my 40th. I'm trying out some new stuff, and being a bit bolder. Whereas a few tears ago I think I was a big list between motherhood, no longer being in my 20s and lacking in confidence.

This year I have bought things I would never have tried previously. Leather jackets, coated leggings, leopard print in small amounts, faux fur gilets, over the knee boots and silk shirts. I love my clothes now, but have to stop spending - it's got a bit addictive

Years not tears ^

Yes I mean casual clothing.

I wear dresses for the most part as my ass is a bit fat and I dont like trousers which are more fitted.

I have very wide hips in relation to my waist so pencil style dont work as I look fat. I have lots and lots of fit and flare dresses id different colours and bold patterns and now I wonder do i look a bit hippyish and maybe a bit scruffy.