Alice in Wonderland themed, black tie gala dinner hints please?

[Libitina]

Not fancy dress, but would like to give a nod in that direction?

Heart shaped earrings and necklace
White rabbit ears could be a bit much

No Playboy bunny tail then??

Darn it!

Red - red queen?

[https://www.google.co.uk/search?q=playing+card+clutch+bag&rlz=1CASMAD_enGB696GB697&espv=2&biw=1280&bih=665&site=webhp&tbm=isch&tbo=u&source=univ&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwiLraqeifbNAhVLKMAKHb3xDcYQsAQILg card bag]

rabbit bag

pocket watch

teacup fascinator

Playing with proportion- oversized jewellery and tiny hats.