Is it 'dressy' enough? It's for a big family wedding. If you had something like this, what kind of top would be nice enough to wear with it? I'm 5'3" so think this may be the way to go, separates with a high waist band? Please help, I"m hopeless dressing myself and I'm a bit intimidated by how well dressed all the other (mostly younger) women will be. I'm 38.