Help me, hair appointment and o don't know what to go for!

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I'm having my hair cut this afternoon, I know I want it shorter and I know I want a fringe (giant forehead!)
Here's a picture of me, I'm stuck under the baby so forgive the awful shot.
What do you think?

I'll put some pics of hair I like too so you can see where I'm currently at in my thought process.

Don't laugh I'm awful at this!

Also excuse the colour i went right pink at Christmas and it's left me with an orange/pinky ombré, ongoing back to my natural dark brown colour.

Hair I like.

Watching with interest! You have lovely eyes and I don't think your forehead is that big, mine is bigger, much bigger! But it's the reason I have a fringe. How long is your hair at the back, do you want it short?

When dry it's about 4 inches below my shoulders and mega thick.

I usually wear glasses.

I usually go once a year and have a layered Bob right up to my hair line with a heavy fringe and then it all grows back and I go again... I have anxiety issues with pampering and the salon is not a comfortable place for me!

I always fancy something different and then bottle it and get the same thing.

Long hair irritates me so I shove
It into a messy bun so that's why I go short.

The 'hair I like' pics mostly have very highlighted/bleached hair - this probably gives the cuts a different 'texture' to dark brown. You might want to ask the hairdresser of those cuts will work with your preferred colour.

*if

Desperate bump? .... Before I come out with the same hairstyle I've had for s decade!

I think you'd suit something like this cut:

www.short-haircut.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/short-to-medium-bob-hair-cuts.jpg

Thanks :)

This is also a nice cut:
creativefan.com/important/cf/2013/04/easy-short-hairstyles/short-easy-new-hair.jpg

Also, I think rather than a blunt fringe, a sideswept longish fringe would be more flattering on you. You have gorgeous eyes, btw!

I think both of the above cuts would make the most of your eyes.

Love the style Shoomoo posted. I think you have great eyes and lips and this style would accentuate both these features.

Meant to say the first pic

Hi, i share your pain about hating the whole atmosphere of the hairdressing salon. I now have someone come to me, is that something that might work for you?

With her help, I have now worked out what works with my hair, given its natural characteristics but just as importantly, how much time i am prepared to spend on styling etc. Since for me, that is absolutely no time at all, i now have the style that i get when i wash it and leave it. And its not too bad. I also have it cut and coloured once every four week (i know....) so that it always looks pretty good.

Given i do nothing, it gets lots of compliments and is really 'me'.

While its good to look for pictures of how you would like it to look, it may also be helpful to find someone who is interested in you and the sort of style that will work for you. Hope you find what you are looking for. Congratulations on your lovely baby.